Is dating just glorified escort service?

I’m not sure why we have this discussion every few months. Men pay for sex all the time, b. Any man who doesn’t believe that is in denial or broke. If you don’t believe me all you have to do is perform a little experiment: You know that girl letting you access her pum pum star? Stop paying for everything, immediately! Now wait 30 days and report back to us how much access to the pum you received afterwards.
--- that was from a website.

I hoenstly just need opinions.. Different views.

Updates:
I don't come from america/europe so my culture is very different mind you

I'm just asking for opinions its not like I agree with it

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Most Helpful Girl

  • I'll never have sex with a guy just because he buys me stuff. I'll never have sex with a guy that I truly don't like. If I like the guy, he'll get to have sex with me even if he hasn't bought me a single thing.
    Relationships are give and take. If he buys me something, I'll either pay him back for it or buy him something in return. For instance, if we go out to dinner and he treats me, then I'll try to treat him the next time we go out. If he buys me a present randomly, like a flower or something, then I will get him something as well. Maybe something edible, like a box of chocolates or something more savory if that's what he likes. Basically, what I'm trying to say is that I'm not very comfortable with "owing" people money or gifts. Even if they don't expect to get anything in return, I'll still feel guilty if I don't pay them back somehow.

    Anyway. If a guy is so stupid that he'll buy a girl whatever she wants just because he expects sex in return, then it's really his own fault if he ends up being used. If you don't want a girl to use you for your money, simply spend little to no money on her. It's as simple as that.

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What Girls Said 9

  • You're 16. What escorts can you afford with your paper route money? It's always the brokest guys complaining about women & money lol

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    • I'm not broke at all._. I'm just asking for opinions since I'm curious of the western culture on who pays and stuff

    • I'm 16 so i'm not rich nor successful just lucky, i guess.

  • Nah, you can’t just try to simplify a situation that involves so many different personality types. However to be honest, with so many females choosing sexual liberation to the point where they give an undeserving guy who hasn’t really earned the delight of her body, I could see how that quote could arise. I don’t believe in giving your body away to just any man but hey that’s just me. No man gets to have sex with me unless we’re in a committed relationship: I don’t care how good it feels.

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  • Not true. I always intend to pay my part when my boyfriend and I go out to eat. Sometimes he surprises me and pays my half just to be sweet. I try to do the same for him but I rarely get away with it, haha. That's just the kind of guy he is.

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    • I've been raised in a place where the guy always pays

      I'm curious, is it just how you guys do things in the US? Split the bills?

  • Don't believe everything you read.

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  • You're a sucker, if you end up paying for everything. Good on that girl, I support exploiting the stupid. :D

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    • I don't come from america/europe so my culture is very different, here guys always pays. Well not always but you get the point. I'm just asking for opinions :)

    • Sure thing, darling. Your post is totally not laced with bitter assumptions about women draining men for money, then leaving when he stops paying.

  • I'm going to just talk about meals. Personally, I like to pay equally. Either alternating who pays (he pays today, I pay tomorrow), or just 50/50 the check. Unless it's a special date where he takes me out, then he'll pay for the meal. And same the other way, if I take him out on a date, then I'll pay for the meal. I'm not really nitpicky though. It really doesn't matter who pays, in my opinion. Just as long as it's not solely a single person paying for most of the things.

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  • No it is not glorified escort service.
    The guys don't have to pay for everything on every date, first official date is good enough, the subsequent ones she has to pay and if the guy allow himself to pay all the time, it is not entirely the girl's fault.

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  • I think sex should go off the acceptability list during dating. Then you'd see who actually likes you for yourself, not just for a thrill.

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    • Virgin girls are lucky in that way : / the assholes show their true colors/true intentions earlier on without distracting you with their d*cks

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  • No, that only applies to guys who literally have nothing else but money to offer a woman.
    Other guys who are better looking or have good personalities don't need to pay for sex in round about ways. Tbh, that's just desperate.

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    • Also, the girls that you'll impress like that... Trust me, they really aren't worth it.

What Guys Said 4

  • There is a presumption that she wants to have sex with you when dating. That presumption changes things a fair bit.

    And if you can't get a girl to like you without throwing your money at her, you're doing it wrong.

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  • If you're paying for everything, then I suppose it is.

    But, you shouldn't pay for everything. I think most girls these days would be willing to go 50/50.

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    • In my culture (asian country) we guys are kinda required to pay and work and all that jazz.. I don't come from a big city so things are even more traditional here. I'm curious of how things work in western countries

  • I'm just a gigolo and everywhere I go the people know the part I'm playin. They pay for every dance, selling each romance... ohh the part they playin.

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  • Dating is not just a glorified escort service.

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    • Alright.

      Can you give an opinion though why it is not?

    • Well, for one, the person doesn't get paid and the concept of direct payment is completely false created by the bitter and idiotic. Second the desires behind the personal behavior are totally different; getting to know you is not the same having to hold your arm because you gave out a few pesos.

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