I have Crohn's disease and have had it since I was 13. Since the age of 13 I have also had a stoma bag. So because I had a colostomy I have to wear a stoma bag most of the time, which I know grosses a lot of people out. This has put me off getting intimate with guys, and I once started dating a guy and then he saw it and said he just couldn't continue the relationship. Image below, it will be a bit graphic but I want your honest opinion.
and this is a diagram of essentially what I have
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Well you need it.
I don't think it'll deter all guys. I've known people with them.
You'll find a not shallow guy who won't see it as a scary thing.1