I am a christian too but i don't come to church every Sunday like him. He is so devoted and he was once a leader until i came to his life which gave him so many conflicts that led him to be disliked in his church because he was not allowed to be in a relationship with someone who is not a leader like him. Last night we talked about going to church together. He asked me if i like to come to church with him to hear God's words but we're not going to the same church he used to go to because he doesn't want me to feel Disliked by people there because of what happened to us. He said he wants me to be closer with God and he also wants me to put the anger out from my heart. He is a very good person and he loves me so much and he said that it is just right that we put God in the center of our relationship. Honestly I am not a good person. I hate a lot of people and I quickly get mad at things and people and i am not afraid to tell them to their faces. I also dont like the people from his church because they don't like me and they want us break up so he could be a leader again. Thats why my boyfriend wants us to go to another church to avoid the conflict and continue to hear God's words. Honestly I want to change, not just for im but also for myself but i usually get discouraged by people especially the ones who judge me. Should i come with him or not?
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First you must ask yourself if you wanna go. If you do, go because of him and not because of the people. But if you're not willing to be a religious person, you must tell him. And about the people who dislike you, you just can't avoid it and if you decide to go with him you must have to deal with them, they're unfortunately judging you because of your beliefs and I think that what they're doing isn't exactly something that Christianity preaches.
I just hope his religion and his beliefs don't ruin your relationship. This would be pretty bad.0