I met a guy was tall and strong and confident in the way he approached me and in the way he asked me out. He complimented me and made me smile and laugh. We went on a few dates and he brought me home to his place and we started making out. He raised up my shirt and told me to take it off, and told me he liked my smooth skin and my nice flat belly. He started kissing my neck and belly and I gave in. A month later I caught him talking to another woman on the phone the same way he talked to me. It was very short lived but if a guy is too soft I don't feel it.
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You are keeping your standards high in wanting a confident, dominant man. But you are assuming the only kind of men who portray those qualities are the loud, outgoing and player types.
A quiet and shy guy can be confident, dominating but just not display it straight away.
In short. Stop looking for these qualities until you actually find out the man you are with wants you for who you are and not just sex. You'll be surprised, most guys who are quiet are still confident and still want to pull the strings.2