Okay so people always tell me that I'm shallow because of this: I have had a lot of guy friends who are really nice ask me out or tell me that they have a crush on me. And I have turned them down because I wasn't attracted to them. Okay I know that looks aren't EVERYTHING, but I can't say that they don't matter. For example, I wouldn't date a really hot guy that treated me like crap. But I wouldn't date a really ugly nice guy either.
So point is, I do think that personality is MORE important than looks, but I just don't think that I should settle for dating an ugly guy just because he's nice, when I could also find an attractive guy who is ALSO nice. I just don't feel like I should have to settle for just one thing. Does that really make me a shallow person?
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You're human. Everyone does this. There is a certain amount of physical attraction that is necessary to feel a romantic connection to another individual and if you don't have that you don't have that. It's the way we're all wired and honestly you're doing the other person a favor by admitting it up front.0