I've noticed that there are plenty of guys who disagree with girls when it comes to what girls want. There's the well known cliché of girls only like jerks which is denied by practically every girl I've seen answer the question but still many guys maintain this is true.
I've seen questions where girls say they don't mind male virgins while guys say they do, questions where girls say they like sweet guys while guys maintain they want dominant guys, questions where girls say they want equal partners and guys say they want a 'leader' for a boyfriend.
I asked a question asking if girls want dominant guys. Almost all girls said no while guys were almost 50 50 iirc.
So guys, do you believe girls when they say what they like?
Girls what do you think of these guys and their arguments?
- Yes, of course.Vote A
- Nothing they say is wrong but they leave stuff out.Vote B
- The advice they give is wrong.Vote C
- Girls normally lie about stuff like that.Vote D
- I'm a girl/OtherVote E
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Most girls give good advice about what behaviors, in a guy they are attracted to, would make them happy in the short term. Most are not as good about describing what behaviors make them actually attracted in the first place. There is some truth in the saying that 'asking women about dating is like asking the fish to recommend bait'. You're better off asking someone who is good at getting women, then women themselves.
But some women are unusually self aware. In this case, it would be like finding a talking fish who is willing to critique your bait, and you'd probably be pretty excited as a fisherman to find that. Women who can really tell what they find attractive, not what they just 'like' give advice that is -gold-.
For the record men are about as bad at this. Go ask guys if they like:
- women in makeup
- women dressed in revealing clothing
- women who look high maintenance.
Then go stand in a club and see which women get swarmed.2