My ex left me for another guy but things didn't work and they broke up. Now she wants me to give her another chance I told her how she broke my heart in the past and also told her that I have a girlfriend now and how long it took for me to trust and love another girl.
She said she is sorry and doesn't want to be a home wrecker but she also said we can see each other and it doesn't hurt my current relationship with my girlfriend.
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Well it all depends on what you two are doing in my opinion.
I see my ex and talk to her almost every day multiple times sometimes the girl I'm with knows I saw her and talk to her sometimes not and my ex's boyfriend are the same. At the beginning they found it a little bit weird that we hung out together but that was the reason we broke up in the first place we were only very very good friends who liked hanging out together but weren't attracted to one another.
The thing is I have a similar situation to yours. My ex broke up with me and completely destroyed me I finaly met somebody really nice and my ex decides to return. Well I told the girl I started dating that I still had feelings for my ex and that I didn't want to throw away what we started but at the same time I still wanted to find out what's going on with my ex. She said she understood and we're still dating. I saw my ex a couple of times and yes we even kissed and some other stuff and it was really really nice and great for both of us but I guess she still has the same kind of problems as she did when she dumped me because she's doing her back and forth act again. At the same time the great girl is turning out to be really really great because we have so much fun together and for once no drama.
So my advice try talking with all parties openlly whatever you feel is what you feel nobody can say it's right or wrong it's just how you feel and if you openly talk about everything you can come to any kind of agreement with everbody that everybody is content with. Like some kind of mediaton or something.
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