I've told a few people here that I'd love to find love and make a girl happy. I've asked plenty of questions about being a good boyfriend. But guys have told me that girls will walk all over me, use me or get bored of me.
They say that if I appear to be too affectionate, most girls will just move on to a tough guy as they like to turn a tough guy soft.
So, should I withold my attention and affection in order to maintain a woman's interest?
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Knowing what you're talking about when you say affection, I think you should be fine if you find the right girl. Of course some may get bored or use you, but some won't either - you just have to find the right girl. But as Flourish said, it's best to bring it on gradually - too soon will freak her out and make her think you're much more invested in the relationship than her.0