It's always me being the one to start all of the conversations and he told me that I don't annoy him and he likes talking to me, but I don't understand why he won't start a conversation. We seem to have pretty good conversations too so do you guys know why he won't? And how often should I text him?
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He's probably super shy, and clueless how to be a man.
Maybe his family isn't one that encourage him to approach people and initiate conversation. Maybe he's just afraid.
I know of many guys who are really good conversationalists and great at listening, but because of being scared etc, they end up not daring to start a conversation incase they bore the girl or scare her off.
(probably a reason why many girls end up getting fed up of 'nice guys' and the next man that talks to they, BAM relationship... I know some girls do this to 'SHOW' the 'nice guys' what to do to get girls like herself. Said 'nice guys' still don't get it though, cos they're oftentimes cowardly idiots. I was once like that too.)
Best thing to do is start a conversation with him, listen VERY INTENTLY and PRETEND TO BE SUPER INTERESTED in whatever the crap he has to say. Get a few other girlfriends to do the same shit for him in 1 on 1 type conversation, don't do it in a group.
Basically some positive psychology study conducted on men who were crap with women found that when these men were exposed to 'interested and sexually attractive women' for 12 minutes, consecutively for 6 times, and then again another set of 6 times 12 minutes the next day... something in them changed and they became great with women for the rest of their lives.
How often should you text him? Less is better.0