I'm nice but I always scare off the normal guys and the less attractive ones. But I attract really hot guys who end up being a little weird. Like this guy I'm talking to right now. When I first saw him my jaw dropped. 6'3, gorgeous face and hair, really fit, dresses like a fashion model almost everyday, and he comes from a really rich family and is about to get his MBA in 2 years. Then we started talking after one of our classes one day and I noticed almost right away that he was kind of weird.
He seemed really nervous like he never really talked to that many girls before. Which I thought was super weird because a guy that looks like him probably has girls chasing him everyday. But he seems really inexperienced with girls and he hasn't asked me out or really flirted with me that much even though I make it super obvious that I like him. We went to his house to study for an exam together and I kept bringing up sexual topics like blowjobs and even touching his arms and complimenting him on how sexy and toned his body is but he got kind of uncomfortable and literally just said "thanks i try to stay in shape" and went back to studying. Most guys would have tried to have sex if a girl did that and we were even in his bedroom. I can tell he likes me because of the way he looks at me but I think he's just bad at flirting and doesn't have the balls to make a move even thought I've made it pretty clear I'm attracted to him.
Also I've told him about my past relationships and we hung out with some of my friends a few times but he never talks about his past relationships and I haven't met any of his friends. He also doesn't use Instagram, Facebook or any other social media site. And he doesn't really use his phone much at all so I'm guessing he doesn't have many friends. But he drives a really sexy Porsche and lives in a millionaire neighborhood. How does he not have experience with girls or have any friends?
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well first of all, you are asking us to validate how you look. '' why do i attract really hot guys...''' you know you look good, and people who look good and need others to validate them, are insecure people. insecure people look for other insecure people, because it works like a magnet. I have been dating a really beauitfull women, even shared a pregnancy and miscarriage with her, but she is superficial. She really treated me porely. deep inside she is a sad, lonely, angry and insecure girl, but because she is so pretty she can get any type of guy, and does she hang around with losers, i tell you that. in your case, you are focussing on really hot guys, thats why you push the good guys away. tell me, would you date me, im 5'10 , i dress casual, im funny and kind, maybe im not rich but i have my heart in the right place, i dont know if i look good in your eyes or not, or do get female attention, but im quit the opposite of what you describe. sort out your priorities. and like me you are ignoring red flags, i dont say social media is a good thing because it ruins a lot of healthy relationships, but for some its a way of communicating. he isn't doing any of that. so fuck his porsche, and his big house. because in my opinion you are focussing way to much on any of that. possibile gold digger?3