I always used to be a confident person but since I split from my husband I accept scraps of attention from this new guy I like. He has led me on for ages (he was amazing initially) and told me he loved me until we had sex, then he said he wasn't over his ex and all he wants is to have sex with me.
But it is the most sporadic sex buddies ever! Yet I can't get him out of my mind or stop talking to him even though I feel it is toxic for me.
I have an active social life but I do not meet anyone that I feel attracted to despite guys flirting with me, so I end up falling back onto this guy.
So my question is, why can I not stop this obsessive needy behaviour which I have never experienced before?
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You need to go date some other people. Right now you are all wrapped up in him and him alone.
Go on a date with someone else, start to get to know them. Don't hide it from this guy though, tell him you're dating other people. He probably thinks he's the one in charge and calling the shots, so show him he isn't. That you're still doing your own thing and leave him to get over his ex. Any guy who lies to fuck you isn't a keeper.0
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