which would you rather have? a serious, committed relationship, or a casual, unlabeled one? Which type are you in now?
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I'm currently in a serious, committed, casual, unlabelled one. How is that even possible?
Serious because we are exclusive. We don't want to be with anyone else, and we don't want to include someone else in our relationship. My feelings for him are serious, so does his.
Committed because we believe that as partners, we are both to inspire each other, to make each other better, and to be there if the other person needs us.
"Casual" because because of distance (it's not so far. Like 10-20 min depending on traffic) and school priorities we can only see each other twice a week. We don't force dates (that's why we decided not to have an anniversary date or to celebrate stuff like Valentine's). When we both can and want, we see each other. (That actually we want to see each other daily, but we can only during the weekend)
Unlabelled because we have seen others people's relationship and we don't fit that. We aren't jealous. We are both allowed to talk and go out with other people (as long as it's not a date). Everything between us comes naturally. We don't have any rules (just that we are exclusive).
To be honest, this is the best relationship I've ever had I never imagined to be in a relationship like this, and I never thought I could ever find someone like him. I'm deeply in love with him and he loves me as well. My life (personal/family/career) just got better since I met him and I don't want to live my life without him.0