I've been texting a guy I met six months ago (in person), and he decided to visit me for the weekend of my birthday (because we live several hours apart). He stayed at mine, and we had sex and did some sightseeing. It was really balanced.
I enjoyed his company over the weekend, and now that he's left I'm wondering if there is any way to tell if he sees any potential with me romantically, without coming straight out and asking? Is it best to just sit back and let him take the lead?
- Wait things out and see what he does56% (15)53% (9)55% (24)Vote
- Follow up with him (if this option, what should I say?)44% (12)47% (8)45% (20)Vote
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Wait things out. You've been texting for 6 months and had him over to your place to sightsee in addition to having sex with him. I think he knows you're interested in something more. The question is, if he is. I find bringing it up too soon puts a lot of pressure on, particularly for a first "real" date/weekend together. I'd wait and see how he plays it.1