I really like this guy, I didn't let him F*** me ONS.
Please all of you donot be mean to me , I would be grateful if you could help this girl. :P
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If the guy doesn't like you in that way, or if he doesn't want a relationship at all, then there's nothing you can do.
If the guy DOES like you in that way, but he's unsure, or if he is reluctant to be in a relationship in general but hasn't totally ruled it out, then you made the right move by not sleeping with him. Giving a guy casual sex is almost guaranteed to make him NOT want a relationship with you, but many girls think the opposite, and get burned.
What you CAN do is have a great personality and be easy and fun to be around. If you are bitchy or easily offended or roll your eyes or whatever, that's a huge turn-off. If you are fun and enjoyable to be around, that's attractive.
Beyond that, all you can do is let the guy know that you DO in fact like him and would like to be in a relationship, but that you don't, EVER, have sex outside of a relationship. Either he'll get past his reluctance to be in a relationship or he won't, but there's no way to MAKE him change his mind. He has to WANT to change it, and not all guys are going to want to.
Ask yourself this: what could a guy that you have zero interest in do to make you want to be with him? Probably nothing, but at most, be fun and charming. This is more-or-less the same thing.2