I'm not very social, so I dont get out much. I'm 22 years old and I wanted to try online dating sooo I tried tinder. I must admit that I did want a boost in self esteem but I also wanted to potentially hit it off with someone, I'm not very into hooking up.
When I first joined tinder it wasn't bad, occasionally I would get blocked by 1 or 2, but after about a couple of hours I would have 20+ matches with attractive guys. And it felt good, can't lie about that...
I never stayed on tinder for more than a few hours without later deleting my account, but over time I noticed that I would occasionally match with someone, but a lot of them would then immediately block me after matching, and it got to the point to where it happened almost every time. I know looks aren't everything but considering i have very very little experience with guys, i wanted to at least feel physically attractive. I've felt ugly all my life so these tinder experiences dont help =/
If it is because I'm ugly, then I'll just have to accept it and get on with my life.
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Don't take it personally, people on Tinder tend to be REALLY conceited and only want to try to talk to the 10/10 girls, whom of which are usually fake.
A multitude of things could cause this. Don't immediately think that it's because you may or may not be ugly.
Try going out more. Join a group or club or something. You'll figure out that you're not ugly. People are different in person3