Long story short , I really hurt the love of my life. NO, I did not cheat on him. I moved away and he asked me 3 times to move home and to marry him and start a family with him. Each time we had long, serious discussions about it and each time I ended up being to scared to move back. I was afraid if I said yes he might now have been serious (I didn't realize he was until after the last time he asked) I was afraid that one day he'd wake up and just not love me anymore. He was also my best friend and I was afraid to lose him altogether if heaven forbid, it didn't work out. I really hurt him and to him... he thinks I lead on him and the case was that I was just to scared at the time to go for it. I do love him and I really fucked up. He seems a little cold now towards me and I fully understand. We still talk but he just wants to dirty talk and send pictures.. I can't tell if he's still hurt or just an asshole now that doesn't care. Any advice on how to fix the situation?
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The solution to this is simple! Tell him just what you said on here, that you were afraid, for all the reasons you mentioned and any others. Everybody has those feelings, after all, and he probably did and does too; and understanding and forgiveness is what true love is all about. How long will he put up with for you? This is a test of your and his love! So, speak the truth, and speak it from your heart. If you're really going to try and get back with him and take his proposal, you will need to be 100% truthful, as any lasting relationship must have everything "out on the table" in order to last and be successful. He may be acting strange now because he's hurt, but confess your love for him and tell him how much you want to be with him, and if he really still loves you, in time, he will take you back stronger than ever before, because he's hurting because he misses you and his best friend so much. Yep, I think you two have something wonderful and grand here, and this is just one step in your future journey. I am envious and wish you best of luck! Remember the old saying: "Love comes to those who wait!"3
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