Me and my boyfriend usually hang out together.
He is above average in looks but has got an amazing body.
He also knows how to dress well. I never had to be his style advisor like in my previous relationship.
Girls , Guys , Young , Old always check him out.
Like the other day at the mall... I saw several girls licking their lips while passing by him. He gets checked out every single time we go out
I hate it when he gets all the attention. It's like I don't even exist.
I love him though.
Girls, you ever been with someone like this? and how did y'all deal with it?
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Wait, do you mean that you're mad that other girls look at him, or that you're made because he gets more attention than you?
If it's the former, then I get irritated, since my boyfriend gets looks from girls as well because of his physique. At the same time though they also pay attention to me, who is giving them a long, blank stare to make them feel awkward and back off, haha! I don't like it, but I think it's just human nature to acknowledge when someone is attractive. He does the same every time we go into a store and guys pay attention to me, except he gives a death glare back at them. :)
If it's the latter, then I don't know what to tell you. I mean I'm definitely not jealous of the attention my boyfriend gets. He works hard to maintain a fit body. Being active makes him happy, which makes me happy that he's happy. The attention that comes with being attractive is just a part of it, I don't resent him for it at all. Just like how he doesn't resent me for the attention I attract in different situations.
I think you should be capable of being happy for him, since he probably works hard to maintain his looks as well. Maybe focus your efforts in finding something that makes you feel good about yourself.1