Me and my boyfriend have been datingfor 3months now and sometimes i tend to make a big deal out of the littlest things and overthink way too much.. We got in a argument last night about me overthinking that he was going to cheat on me because im still a virgin and he got upset and told me i need to trust him and stop overthinking.. But how do i stop? Some women do it a lot sometimes so is there anything i can do to not think about it and just trust him? How can people trust someone so easily without the fear of getting hurt?
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"But how do i stop?"
You don't. You shift your behaviors instead. If you have a fear talk about it calmly and tell him openly that it's an irrational fear and you know it but you still feel it anyway and just want to be comforted. To be honest it goes a long way since everyone has these fears and it's just part of your personality to question the veracity of other's and their intent.1