So I have been dating this guy for 8 months and he has this close female friend and she is too touchy feely with him in my opinion. One day the 3 of us were hanging out and sitting down and she had her head on his shoulder. And when she hugs him she holds him for like a minute. This has happened ever since we started dating. At first I thought it would stop if I just gave it time so I bit my lip and didn't say anything and when it continued happening time and time again I finally said something to her very nicely I just said look I'm not trying to be rude but I would appreciate it if you weren't all over my bf. I just feel like putting your heard on his shoulder and hugging him ever so tightly is a bit much so out of respect for the fact that he has a gf can you tone it down please? At the end i added im sure you can understand where i am coming from being a girl and all that if you had a bf you wouldn't like another girl beinf all over him. I worded it very nicely and she got all defensive saying how it is how they always interacted. I said well that was when he was single now he has a gf and I believe that type of behavior should be reserved for me no other women. Obvs family members don't count. I felt I worded it very nicely and she got all defensive with me which makes me suspicious that she likes him as more than a friend or else she would respect our relationship and wouldn't feel the need to hang all over him. She was like wait until I tell Danny (my bf) how crazy you are being and he will defend me
That's when I got an attitude back and said if you thinky own bf isn't going to back me up and is going to side with u over me then you are nuts. Should I ask him to cut back on hanging out with her because obvs she is crossing a line and being disrespectful to my wishes or what?
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I think you're just insecure. Trust him... nothing probably will come of it. My best friend is a female and sometimes my gf doesn't like us hanging out but I'd never stop being with her. I knew her for years and in fact she's the reason I even met my gf and the one I go to for advice. Just trust him.0