I've been trying to find someone to settle down with for much longer than I care to admit. I talk to women and they seem to like me, but always turn me down when I ask for a date. I really am tired of being alone all the time and don't understand what I'm doing wrong. There has to be something about me that makes me untouchable. I wish I knew what it was so I could change it. It's been like this my whole life. I smile. I'm nice. I like to listen to them and enjoy talking at length about anything we might have in common. Any advice could help. Thanks.
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I am reading me, me, I... in just the question title!
Let's reverse that thinking, begin thinking you, you, you & maybe "us" might be suggested by a gal.
Now let's get rude... why should a gal go into a house when shopping when curbside it has no appeal? Makes no sense, since it's the inside she'll be living 23.5 out of 24 hours/day.
SO it's what she's getting from the get-go that drives her shopping and to save time, she culls out those with no street appeal.
Show these gals some curb appeal.
You may want to ditch your creamy shave around the edges barber shop for a his&hers beauty shop hair stylist that gives ample tips on your appearance enhancements, then off to your favorite exercise performed at least 3hrs/day x4/week - this could include dancing (see below)
Now that they have stopped to talk (yes, you have some of this but more = better)
they are now shopping for more... what can this guy give me I find attractive in lifestyle hereafter?
What women wants - the subject of books, movies, et al. is easily obtained with your own eyes, if you let them travel enough. Look where they congregate! Be good at those things!
> Golf? ... not really too many there, right?
> Dancing... women fight over a good dancer
> Out to dine... ability to give rest & respect through dining orders
> Shopping... unless you work at a women's store, am stumped on how to help here... curb appeal should have taken care of this item anyway
> At home building & maintaining a nest... be The One she can call husband, provider, father to kids
> Church... no matter how inwardly wicked one is, joining this club usually give immediate respect & embraces, as if wearing a badge or uniform...
> Socials... these can be easy to join volunteer, nonprofits, even political BS
Participate & demonstrate a true need to excel in these items, then carry a stick to beat them off of you1