I have been dating my boyfriend for 2 and a half years. We are both in college and go to the same school. In my class, I've met another guy who has a lot in common with me. He likes a lot of the same music, movies and hobbies. I have a lot in common with my boyfriend too, don't get me wrong. This guy keeps inviting me over to work on school work and study together. I can't tell what his intentions are, but I do kinda like him and I feel reeeeally bad. I haven't mentioned this guy to my boyfriend. I know he'd be upset. But I have no idea what to do! The other guy is very funny and nice. I enjoy his company. I can't keep making up lies on why I can't study with him. I really want too. But it isn't right. how do I take care of this situation?
I have a boyfriend. But a crush on someone else?
What Guys Said 2
You shouldn't feel jealous that you have a crush on another guy so long as you don't act on it. My then-girlfriend knew I had a big crush on one of our mutual coworkers, she didn't get angry or anything she thought it was kinda funny/cute but some people would get jealous of that. But basically, no harm no foul.0
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Lose one guy and i hope it's the imposter. Does he know that you're in a relationship?0
What Girls Said 5
Why are you still with him? If you can't get past the fact that he cheated on you or whatever he did with his ex, then it's not healthy to stay in the relationship. If you want to leave, then leave. Some relationships are not always meant to last.1
Either u love ur boyfriend or u don't.
something must be not right in ur current relationship eg. it might be boring now
if u love a person i dont see how one can have a crush on another.0
you pick which one you want. can't have both. then stop liking the other.0
It's a very difficult situation, I'm in kind of a comparable situation myself of being in a relationship and crushing on another person. I think you don't nessecarily have to tell your boyfriend, but than you do have to make it clear to the other guy that you are not going to study together with him and that you have a boyfriend. However, if you do accept one of his invitations I feel like your boyfriend has the right to know. I also don't think that would be a good idea. Being alone with another guy that you're crushing on is probably going to lead to things you're going to regret later.0
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