Why is it that guys only want the tiny little girls? I've been struggling to find a guy who will be okay with curves and some chunk but turn me down for a girl who is super tiny. Guys why is that? (yes I know that there are guys that love fat girls but apparently not where I live).
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It's not that I have anything against bigger girls. In fact, many of my friends are on the larger side, and I think they're great people. Unfortunately, I am just not attracted to them.
It's just the way people are wired, just like gay guys and lesbians are not attracted to the opposite sex. It's not something that is chosen or can be changed, I'm afraid.
I put a more emphasis on personality, compatibility, and substance, rather than physical appearance, but there still has to be some level of sexual attraction for a relationship to work. If I'm not attracted to her, and her to me, then the intimacy necessary to build upon the bond we share won't be there.1