Let me describe the "good guy"
He treats me like a princess, takes me to dinner, he makes future plans, he is a great friend and we have been seeing each other for almost a year now and all we have done is kiss. On paper he is perfect, good looking, smart, rich, fluent in french, helicopter pilot, great family and most importantly treats me well! Obviously he is a total catch!!
But I can't see myself being loyal to him :((
I am the extremely loyal type, so when I like a man immediately he is the best thing ever and then suddenly there is no other guy in the world.
The guys I am loyal too though are scrubs.. the guys that want to "chill" and not make plans. They surf all day, sleep on a twin bed, have no job and no plans.
I treat these guys like kings and buy them things, make them meals, clean their house, give them sex whenever they want. They never commit or stay for very long.
What is wrong with me? Advice please...
Most Helpful Girl
I think you're addicted to them. No matter how hard you try to impress them, they're NOT impressed at all. So you keep trying as hard as you can, until it finally hits you that any more effort is pointless. But, since you never got their approval, you've got to keep trying over and over with different guys who are the same type to try and get it anyway.0