Gonna give long story short:
-Met girl off dating site. been talking and hanging out every so often for 4 months so far.
-A month into talking to her, things slowed down drastically, when I upfront asked her whats wrong, she told me she doesn't want a relationship. I upfront asked her "Be honest please, i won't be offended, do you just not like me?" and she said "I do like you im just not sure about a relationship right now". and yes i did ask if there's another guy, about 2 times and she keeps saying no (and doesn't get defensive)
-As i stated before, even tho she told me she's not ready she still hangs out with me and we still go on cute dates and cuddle and stuff
Everything was fine untill I saw a comment that bothered me. She knows I know her tumblr, as she's shared it with me and I've sent her cute stuff on it sometimes. However she doesn't know I know her instagram (to be honest, i just googled her name and it popped up lol)
here's what got me paranoid:
She posted a selfie today (on instagram) and one of her female friends commented "Haha damn girl lemme hit that, kevin doesn't have to know" (my name isint kevin, and i haven't met her friends) and she replied "of course you can :)" ( referencing to her female friend)
I noticed that kevin liked that selfie as well as other friends, and i checked out his instagram and she liked some of his photos about his job.
when i went to his Facebook, it said in a relationship for the past 8 months. what i also kinda see weird is he has a "life event" posted that says "met (girl im datings name)". that doesn't necessarily mean dating or romantic wise, still kinda weird
the only thing that kinda assures me that maybe im overthinking, is 2 things. one she told her parents about me. not in a bad sense of course. and two, today i told her "You know, sometimes i feel like you just want this all to end because you still barely talk" and she replied "thats not true"
Please help GaG!
- Confront her100% (5)25% (1)67% (6)Vote
- Yes be suspicious but dont confront0% (0)25% (1)11% (1)Vote
- Dont be suspicious0% (0)50% (2)22% (2)Vote
- other (post what)0% (0)0% (0)0% (0)Vote
she didn't say exboyfriend? and i didn't really think of anything to correct her. this happened like 2 months ago