I started seeing a girl I met on tinder back in December. She's come over a few times for movie nights and we cudled/made out but she made it clear that sex wasn't an option until later. We never talked about where it was going etc... Since then we've hung out about once a week and text every few days. She's always told me how judgmental her mom is of the guys she dates and how she's not worried about me meeting her because she always upgrades (keeps comparing me postively with her past bfs). I finally met her parents at a baseball game last week (her idea, we went to watch her cousin play and they were there). Now, we haven't had sex yet and I'm not the type to go in a relationship if the sexual chemistry isn't there. In all honesty I met someone else who I have this sexual chemistry with and even though the first girl is incredibly nice and we can talk forever and get along great, there's just nothing there sexually. Now she wants to sleep over and I don't know what to do. Any advice on what she's thinking or how I could either get her to see that we're not exclusive or beak things off with her while continuing to keep her as a friend?
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Tell her! She's gonna be hurt, but it's better now than later :/
This is why I don't wanna start dating again. Nowadays you have to have "the talk" or else they won't be exclusive with you.
Tell her because she's obviously liking you and I'm willing to bet she's naive (like I get) and hopes that you're being sincere.0
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