So my ex boyfriend and I broke up 4 months ago. We continued to talk via text but things became really bitter on his side. So a month ago i decided we needed some space so decided 30 days no contact might help. So he messaged me twice in that time and i ignore because i was already 15 days in. So i got to 26 days no contact until he cracked it with me saying that i was the one who wanted friendship and if i wanted to be friends then i needed to talk to him and stop playing games.
For starters I wasn't playing games. Anyway i broke no contact and things started out alright and then he became really rude. Telling me how happy he is that he has never felt better in life. Never felt so accepted. That girls thought he was really attractive and stuff. I asked him to not say these things as I hadn't asked, He also told me he was seeing a girl. And like i get that that was going to happen but he just expected me to be accepting and how can I?
but then he tells me how amazing she is and then proceeds to tell me that i'm inferior and all this stuff.
I have explained to him how he has hurt me, but he doesn't get it and can't see how I can be hurt and if we are going to be friends i need to know these things. I agree I do, but not that way. He also told me his new gf was stalking me while he was sitting there and like how am i supposed to be fine with that? I was really short with him and just said. Bye talk soon. But my friends and family have told me I'm crazy if i speak to him again. And he messaged me today and i feel i need to ignore him to move on. But i feel really bad. But I feel that unless he says sorry for all the things he has said after the break up than there's nothing there. No chance for a friendship.
Is it okay to ignore him? I know that I might lose him altogether but everytime we talk he just rubs his life and his 18 year old gf in my face. We are 23. So i was a bit spiteful and told him she was too young.
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It's a great idea to ignore him. He is worthless to you and a source of stress. He came back just to brag.1