Me and my boyfriend broke up last week..well he broke up with me..saying he had a lot going on right now and I wasn't on the top of his priority list anymore..etc..well I hadn't heard from his since Tuesday which was thee day he broke up with me so I decided to call..probably a stupid idea..but I did..and surprisingly he answered..he was being super nice and said the reason he hadn't called me first was because he was afraid I was still upset..which I am but I'm not going to tell him that...he was just acting like nothing had happened..asked me what my plans for the day were and stuff..well he asked if I wanted to do something monday and I said yes..this is where I'm confused..he just broke up with me and already wants to hang out? What does that mean..I asked him if we were just going to be friends and he said yes but can someone really go from dating someone to just seeing them as a friend so soon? I know its going to be hard for me hanging out with him..what should I do? Should I not put myself in that situation..I don't want to ask him if he would ever give it another shot later on down the road because I don't want to scare him away but at the same time I don't just want to be friends with hm if he's never going to try and make it work later on..I need advice...should I ask him right now if he would ever consider dating me again or would that be bad to ask so soon after he broke up with me?
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>should I ask him right now if he would ever consider dating me again or would that be bad to >ask so soon after he broke up with me?
Are you THAT desperate? I don't think so.
He just needs time, space, and a good friend-girl.
Has he moved on? Then respect that. You have your dignity.