I have a date tonight. In the past, I always seemed to have a problem of getting past the first date! I am respectful, pay for dates, hold doors, pull out chairs for women and walk them to their car after the date...
Maybe I am just a boring guy?
What are some date tips you can provide for me to help me ensure it is successful? I have a date in 45 minutes XD.
Most Helpful Guy
I know I'm not a lady but I can and will offer you advice:
Treat her as an equal. If she wants to open the door herself or pull out her own chair, let her. Keep in mind though that this does not mean to treat her like "one of the guys".
Know how to start and hold a steady conversation. Ask her about herself, but also ask imaginative but interesting and even funny questions.
It's okay to compliment her on her appearance, but also compliment her on how she is as a person. Compliment her on her intellect, humor, talents, etc.
Pay for her meal or at least offer to do so if she wants to pay for her own. This will show that you're still wanting to be a gentlemen.
Bonus: Bring her flowers! (Unless she's allergic)0