I'm 26 and he's almost 30. I've only known him for about a month, and most of the time we've just met up for food and so where we lived never really came up. I then invited him over once and made a comment about going to his place next time and he said it wouldn't be good and he just said he had a roommate. He hasn't offered to invite me over and never talks about his roommate. I have a pretty strong feeling he still lives with parents. I don't really care because I know everyone's life circumstances are different and its not like he's a bum. I don't always want to just hang out at my house, but I don't want to push going to his if he's afraid to admit/tell me that he lives at home still. How can I bring this up? Will he ever invite me over? At some point he has to tell me, right?
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If he does live at his partents', chances are he is quite embarrassed, especially since you guys only have known each other for a month.
I think it is a good idea to push him a little, but don't mention that you think he lives with his parents. If he doesn't, it may get awkward. Just say something you "You know, I would really like to go to your place once, I am curious what it is like!"
If he keeps insisting that his roommate is a problem and you can't convince him, tell him what you suspect. I would wait with this until he really seems to avoid the issue altogether. If he actually does have a crazy roommate and he wants to know why you thought he was living with his parents, here's a nice safe: "Well, you were being quite secretive about your place and I just kinda assumed *grin*"
I hope this helps! ;)0