Girlfriend of 5 months is busy studying for exams papers etc. Yes it's that time of year! We rarely text now. Even when I do initiate the text, I only get very short responses and the conversation immediately dies. I've also asked her our on little study breaks, whether it's just coffee or dinner or whatever, but so far she's turned almost all of them down saying because she "has too much work." It's not like I don't understand her, especially since I was just like her when I was still in college. But I've still managed to make some time to at least have a text conversation with my girlfriend. It doesn't take that much effort right?
People say I should back off and wait for her to come back, but I'm not sure how long that will take. Plus I'm even starting to wonder if that's ever going to happen. I'm also not sure if she's losing interest in me as well. What can I do? Any insights?
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Listen to this pal, because you won't get any more truth from anyone on this site.
My GF is exactly like yours, and is going through the same stress as she is now. We barely get to speak to each other, and we barely get to see eachother because she is so stressed about her work.
Right now, you're not a priority. But that doesn't mean she's losing interest at all, she just wants to succeed in her exams - that's it.
I would do what I did and just back off and give her space. When she realises that you're not contacting her, she'll contact you.
So please give her space, and don't worry about Valentine's say, you'll have plenty of those with her in the future.5
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