What do you say when on a dating site/app or someone texts you for the first time, or in-person and they ask "How are you?"
Is this really supposed to be an effective conversation starter? How would you react to someone saying "I'm good" or "Honestly, I'm shit"? If they actually formulate a response that mentions stuff they are doing or thinking about, is that ideal for progressing a conversation? Or is it too much information and you actually wanted a totally generic response?
I don't know what people want from me.
Is this weird to anyone else? Or am I an aspie?
- You have Assburger's syndrome.Vote A
- I know them feels bro.Vote B
Most Helpful Girl
When people ask me that I just say "Good you?" or "I'm okay/fine you?" I don't really say much unless I'm in one of those moods where I want to rant and talk a lot of if I'm interested in the person. I just see that message a lot so I don't really like getting the "How are you?" message like every time I open my inbox. It's different in person I'm really shy so when people ask how am I doing I just say "Okay" and that's it. Cause I get to shy to say how about you since I don't really like conversating with strangers. I have social anxiety so my mind goes blank.1