18 years old threw her an ultimatum between them and me. I think this is ridiculous.
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After 18 parents should only have control over a child (male or female) when that child is still living under their roof, where they are still the care takers and providers for that person. If they are providing for that person, then they are still a child and until they can care for themselves responsibly, the parents should have some say in the well-being of said child.
If they are living on their own and are responsible adults, parents should no longer have dictatorship over their decisions, but should still be permitted to give suggestions from life experience in the hopes they will make better judgements. (Ex: If you were in and out of prison, A parent should have the ability to suggest that she make better life choices because you will bring her nothing but trouble. Then they should leave it up to her whether or not she uses that information wisely.)0