I am so confused. It seems that every guy I like, only likes me enough to hook up with me, but not for a relationship. I like to have fun, and go to parties, and bars. I like being around people, but I am nowhere near a slut, or sleep with many guys. I only slept with 2 guys so far in my life of 21 years haha. I am actually known for being the girl that doesn't "put out". I respect myself a lot, and I don't act flirty, but yet guys never take me seriously. They always say I am a "party girl", and they think I am "wild", just because a girl likes to have fun she's "wild"? She's a "partyer"? I wonder how guys think I am someone you don't take seriously? I go to school, and i am responsible. I am not slutty, or flirty. I am not easy, so why would guys think I am a slut? Or not take me seriously?
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A lot of people judge others based on what's on the outside, ie the way you dress, your hobbies, and etc. Honestly, and I hope you don't take this the wrong way so I'm sorry, but you kind of have that look a little. I'm not saying you look slutty, but you kind of have the "I want to have fun" kind of look you know? Again sorry if you feel offended or anything.
It's good that you have your head in the right area though. That's definitely a very good thing for sure.1