I have been on three dates with one girl, and I really like her and it's going well. But I had another girl ask me out today and said yes. I have only seen the first girl like once a week so far and we are still just getting to know each other I feel like (we met on tinder), I should note that we text all the time, and not just stupid stuff, really good stuff.
This new girl is a girl I work with who I had a crush on for a while, I never made a move because she is super pretty. But she actually made a move on me and asked me out.
I guess I am asking, should I cancel this new date, because honestly I really do like the first girl and I don't want to hurt my chances if she would be upset I was seeing other people. And I am wondering if I was just thinking with my 'other head' with the girl from work. Or would she be okay with it because we are still not that involved?
- She would be upset if you were stills seeing other people83% (5)60% (3)73% (8)Vote
- Don't worry about it if you never said it was exclusive.17% (1)40% (2)27% (3)Vote
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To my understanding, No one expects to be exclusive. It's a decuiion people make together based on how things are going.
It'd depend on you and her and what was going on... And it can only be decuded between the two of you. Not strangers.
As for your oreducament. You are free to date as many people as you like. Some prople multi date others don't. Neither has to do eith bring exclusive. Some people only want to get to know one oetsin at a time. You're not exclusive you can walk away anytime it's just simpler. For some.
I don't know if she's dating others rookie ir just you or if she thinks you're dating other people or just her.
You should tell her you'd like to continue getting to know her bit let her know you are currently seeing somrine else.
She may not want to continue seeing you or she may not care at all or she may be relieved bc she's seeing other people or she may be s bit disappointed but still intersted.
Just give her a heads up for good measure:-)1