I hope this doesn't make me sound like a slut or anything, because I promise you I'm not. So I have a boyfriend. I love him to death. We've been dating for a little over a year. The thing is I recentl went over to my friends house and her brother was there, or one of them at least. I know her brother very well. He's nice, funny, and polite. The thing is I think I may also like him. I don't think he really likes me in that way, because he's a little older than me, and I don't think I'd consider dating him right now anyway. So here lies the question-is this normal? I don't want to break up with or cheat on my boyfriend, because I still really like him, but I was just wondering if it's normal to be attracted to other people despite being in a relationship.
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I think it is normal to have small crushes on other people every once in a while as we as humans can comprehend that other people are attractive and great even if we have a partner... the difference being is the desire to act on it or not. If there is no desire then there is no harm but if intentions to arise then a problem is starting to form.0