Am I that undesirable where NO ONE wants to even give me a chance in regards to dating or relationships. Its as if God wants me to spend my life alone, then die alone. I don't think I'm that bad of a person to where I've been put on some kind of social blacklist or something. I don't think I'm that bad looking; 5'7, 150lbs decent amount of toned muscle. The thing is I have NO teeth due to a car accident, and I get SSI due to extreme social anxiety and depression. Honestly I just want a woman to talk to and love me for me, bc I'll do the same. I've tried the nightclub/bar scene (never get past the front door) I've tried striking up friendly conversations with random people (they either ignore me or move away from me) I've tried online dating only to have admin delete my photo/profile (i guess men must be THIS good looking to join)... this is not a pity party or a poor me attitude. I honestly don't know what im doing wrong. I've tried asking (what few) female friends i have to introduce me to their girlfriends only for them to go "sure", then laugh behind my back, and set those same girlfriends up with other guys as if to spite me. Im seriously considering suicide/murder bc im so goddamn lonely. The only reason I've posted anonymously is bc i dont need any more jokes or insults...
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One of the things I've come to understand about women is that if you're not what they want (that being tall, buff, nice hair, etc)
Then you won't have much luck especially in the bar and club scenes where woman are more shallow then men. I think we as men have to become the best version of ourselves before we can offer that to a potential mate. And if we still have no luck with women we automatically think it has something to do with us. When in all actuality it's them. Don't think that there's something wrong with you. Women are very picky when it comes to men. So if you don't fit their ideal guy then it just will never work. I realize you've had things happen to you but in the words of Les Brown, "Forget about your past make the rest of your life the best of your life."
Whether that's with a woman who loves you for you or a life with a feast of great friends that keep you going. We don't need woman and they don't exactly need us apparently. So I say just focus on you. Become the strongest version of yourself. Start a revolution. Become the greatest man you can be. Good luck brother.0