What is knowing your worth? I have seen this dilemma men and women both being "used" by someone else. So what does it take to eliminate the players? You know the ones I am talking about. The ones who will say whatever they need to in order to end up in bed with you. Now supposing I told you there was a way to eliminate those from your life? Truth is, People can only do to you what you allow. They may say one thing, But are they doing another? This is where a good moral compass and moral standards come into play. First, If you are looking for a serious relationship, What traits do you look for and are you willing to make the person of interest demonstrate their qualities, therefore earn the right to continue with you? Do their morals match the same ones YOU proclaim to have? If they initially appear to be on the same page as you are, This is where you put them to the test. Time is your greatest asset here as it will separate the girls from the ladies, the boys from the men. This is what dating is about. Seeing if they make the cut or not. Now first, If you fear losing someone because you want a committment before taking them to bed, and if they confirm your fears, They were only after one thing. A player is not going to wait for you as he / she is only out to get laid. If they do step out on you with someone else, Know your worth, and above all, Know that suck a person failed the test and is most likely, not relationship oriented like you are. So you let them go. That's one player that bit the dust, one less person that could use you. Starting to see how personal standards can keep the wrong ones out of your life? Raise the standard! Raise the bar! Know your worth.
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I agree. If u don't settle and hold out for what u want, how can someone play you?1