I would never say I am hot or sexy or that I deserve a hot or sexy girl, but I still want a girl I find physically attractive. I just feel like so many people in general all say that ' if they don't like who you are on the inside, then they are shallow'. There are plenty of people I love on the inside, but for me those people are friends. When there is mutual physical attraction then that is soemone I am romantically interested in. I just want to know why that is so wrong. I know sex is not the most important aspect to a relationship but is still plays a huge role in a romantic relationship. Sorry for wanting someone I FIND beautiful I can't wait to come home to and make passionate love
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Looks are just icing on the cake! they will only last a while not forever! what if you marry this beautiful gorgeous lady that you romanticize day and night and love her like crazy and one day god forbids she gets into an accident and her whole body is deformed? then what you will leave her?
what if she is this beautiful girl and a complete bitch that has you on a leash. would you want to spend the rest of your with a girl like that?
you would want someone who you can converse about just anything! joke laugh understand complete each other! you will not only fall in love with the way they look but also the way they act!
yes i do agree looks do matter in order to be attracted to someone but i think its mostly have do with mental stimulation as well.
I was once talking to this really goodlooking guy who was so hot like drop dead gorgeous! but he just didn't know how to talk, flirt. anything! i was attracted 100% but the mental stimulation was lacking. All he used to talk about was workout and it got to a point where i literally had to drop it. It was very boring!3