I am 19 almost 20 years old and I have never had a boyfriend or my first kiss. The only guy who ever liked me was a creeper/stalker type. I will admit that I am obese, but I do truly believe that even despite that someone out there has to like me for who I am. To see beyond the physical superficial and get to my personality. I am 210 pounds 5'9" have brown hair and brown eyes. I am fair skinned with rosy red cheeks and I am introverted. I am artistically inclined and want to become a graphic designer. So what is wrong with me if anything? I sometimes think that it might be romantic that possibly the first guy I date will be the one I marry someday, but than again that would give me limited experience dating. I don't know maybe I am a freak or am simply waiting to meet my own Mr. Darcy.
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Well that just sounds sad... But in all honesty physical attraction is most assuredly part of the overall attraction one person feels for another. And if you feel that you can't find anyone interested in you why don't you change what you do? You can't just sit around waiting for opportunity to come a knocking!!! If you feel like your weight is the issue then take better care of yourself eat in a way that is healthy and be more active take stairs instead of elevators and escalators... Or if you just flat out wrong try that then flirt with guys and pursue them either way nothing will change unless you change it yourself!!! :) remember stay positive!!!0