It's getting me no where, I never use to think that women enjoy men who just treat that like complete trash and that they are always, ALWAYS tricked and deceived but its becoming quite obvious that these men are who most girls want and go for. Let me say this first, I'm not one of the nice guys that will do or say anything for a women then cry over rejection, but I'll be sweet, kind, honest, and loving to her and treat her like how I'll want to be treated. This is honestly how I thought how you attract girls when i had my first crush, but turns out i was drop dead wrong. I'm just tired of being used and thrown in the friend zone while the douche guy gets the girl that i should have, and any guy who is or has been in my position will agree that these girls always come back complaining to us saying "Why did he treat me so badly" or "How come I can't find a nice guy?" and all I have is a massive facepalm to that.
Ladies can I please know why most of you prefer jerks to guys who are actually willing to treat you right with nothing in return, you know the smart guys who are going to college and trying to make a future for themselves? I honestly cannot fathom why so many girls in my school like the same group of man-thots that only want females for their bodies and for bragging rights, then guys like us who are willing to treat them like actual living organisms.
Plenty of girls have told me that I'm really attractive, smart, funny, sweet, and overall a nice person to be around but then they always go to the guy that is a complete asshole - The kind of guy that no one likes at all.
I guess this explains why these girls always run back to us around their 30s and realize that the nice guys are the ones with money and careers and who can provide for them, not the popular sneaker heads with "Swag" who are not paying child support and own about 30 people money.
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"... while the douche guy gets the girl that i should have"