A nice person who isn't easily led or easy to use. Somebody who doesn't run around doing everything for everybody, but still has a heart and helps out his close friends and family. Somebody who doesn't just agree because she has boobs, he has his own mind and can speak his mind without being rude or offensive.
Orrr, the hardball types who are really just softies inside and will do anything for his family even while being mean to others. He'll like cuss another guy out then go give a homeless guy some money and food.
The most important bit, is ones who know when to argue back and know when to just shut up and let her do her woman thing and complain/vent. The guys who can get that balance down are the best. First time I met one, i was sooo shocked and really really REALLY liked that he could do that. He was the only boy with 5 sisters no brothers, so had a lot of practice lol
The truth is:
Every guy wants a good girl to be bad just for him and every girl wants a bad boy to be good just for him
Read what I wrote here:
www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1329674-why-are-nice-guys-allowed-to-finish-last
Be the third type: the Good Guy. You won't become one overnight - it will take work and practice and perhaps years of work to get there, but the Good Guy generally is the one who really "wins."
The Nice Guy rarely ever does.
You can find the middle by not playing into stereotypes and instead being a normal person, try to self improve where you can like working on hygiene or wearing more fashionable clothing (find thrift stores to save money, good finds are rare but worth it), then add some flirting to the girls you like and you're good to go.
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a self confident nice guy is the middle ground. A respectable man who is not afraid to state his intent with a woman from the get-go
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