just need help because it makes me feel bad that i can't talk to pretty girls.
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Fears is an illusion, it doesn't exist you created it. You can talk to girls but you are allowing your fear to override that. I have learned to talk to people with a friend funny, gently but not overpowering. Than let the relationship evolve as it is meant to.
Girls like it when guys muster up the confidence to go up and randomly talk to them and find it as a complement. Just put yourself out there and do not let fear hold you back.
I liked a guy (currently my significant other) and just randomly started talking to him in high school and now I've been together with him for over 3 years. I was fearless and knew that "hey if he doesn't seem interested it is his loss."
You need to love yourself, accept where you are in life and do not judge yourself as harshly as you do, this is holding you back. If one learns to love themselves more they are then able to put themselves out there and be fearless. When you are fearless you have nothing to loose, if she doesn't talk to you back than move on and know everything happens for a reason.0