I've known this guy for almost a month now but we have just started going out. our first date was fun yet brief because I had something else to do that night, no holding hands, no kissing. our second date went longer and we made out that time. on our third date, things got a little hot and heavy and we had sex. is this acceptable? and before we had sex he made me stop and asked me if I really wanted to do this because he didn't want me to think that that was the only thing he was after. I said yes and we did. the thing is, I didn't feel rushed nor pressured. he made sure I was okay and everything as well. and yes, we're still going out and he's still as sweet as ever. most people will say that the 3rd date rule is BS, I'm leaning towards this but I still want to hear everyone's input.
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I don't agree with all these dumb rules. He seemed to be totally in tune with what you wanted, and you didn't feel pressured. I would take it as a good sign.1