Casual dating in my situation at least, is we like each other and we do go on dates and hang out and such, but due to us moving separate ways in sept. we don't want to get to involved. I just don't like to date multiple people at the same time, and I would like her to do the same. Would you agree with the guy if he asked you to do this in this scenario?
Any input is much appreciated!
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just to be clear - you want to be exclusive with her until September when you end things? Or do you expect her to be exclusive when you're apart as well?
Honestly, this totally depends on the person and the situation. By being exclusive, you're essentially going to be in a relationship for 8 months. Which is fine, but if I really cared about someone that much, after dating for 8 months I would want to try out a long distance relationship.
You "don't want to get too involved," so being exclusive seems counter-productive to that. If you don't want to get too involved, you wouldn't put labels on the relationship and leave it open. It doesn't mean you're both necessarily going to go out with 20 different people over the next few months, but you're leaving it open.
There's nothing wrong with asking if she wants to be exclusive. If you really want a committed relationship, then yes you should ask her. But saying "we don't want to get too involved" sounds like you don't want a commited relationship. In which case you should just leave it open and let her see other people if that''s her choice3