I'm not really sure what to do in this situation.
I met a girl in August of last year and we hit it off. I thought I was really to start back dating since I took 4 months off after my EX left me.
The new girl is really great and I enjoy spending time with her. The only issue is that I can't stop thinking about my EX and it's causing me not to give my complete attention to this new girl. I thought I was ready to be with her but now I'm not so sure but I don't want to lose her completely.
Last December me and the new girl has a bit of a falling out because of all this (I had to tell her) and she didn't speak to me for about a month. She texted me out of the blue a few days ago and told me that she's not made anymore and just wanted to say hello (she's a sweet girl like that). I don't know what to do at this point because I don't know if I'm ready to be with her yet and I don't know if I'm over my EX enough yet to really focus on her. But I still don't want to let the new girl go yet.
Any ideas on what to do?
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Look man, You gotta decide whether or not you want your ex to keep dictating your life. Has she moved on? Then you should too. If you really like this new girl, then see what happens. I'm assuming your breakup with your ex happened within a year ago. (Since you met the new girl in August of last year). So you should at least try and move on with her.
But if you seriously can't, then don't. But just know, your ex is moving on, while your throwing girls away that like you a lot, for your ex that has moved on..2