I just have always either heard about guys cheating on me or my friends or guys having girls on the side etc etc. My dad cheated on my mom... all my friends boyfriends cheat on them and stuff too so what do I do?
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Check out the way your friends and behave, and then don't behave that way. If you actually satisfy your man's sexual needs he has no reason to cheat. And if you're not a crazy bitch who's impossible to be around, he won't have an excuse not to feel guilty for cheating on you.
You can do everything right in a relationship, and he still might cheat on you, provided he's that type of guy. Myself, i'd never sign on to a committed relationship if i thought there would be that temptation. But if you're the perfect girlfriend, it'll make it that much harder to go through with it, and in the end, even if it does end badly... well think of it this way, if you went to disneyland and at the end of the day it rains and ruins everything, at least you still had a whole day of fun. Wouldn't you rather a good thing that later stops being a good thing then no good thing at all? Don't let the fear of what might happen stop you from having the fun that WILL happen. Just cherish it all the more until that day comes--IF that day comes, when its gone.
But most importantly if this is what you're worried about, try to be a sweet person. Too many girls make their motto that whole obnoxious Marilyn Monroe thing, "if you can't accept me at my worst, you don't deserve me at my best". Thinking guys just have to suck it up and accept their multitude of faults or they're not going to get laid. But thats the number one thing that makes guys cheat, is having a girlfriend they can't stand who withholds sex as a weapon.0