I don't know about "MOST" guys running away from a female virgin but...
For one, it could be dealing with the "Breaking-In" factor. From what I understand most if not all girls can find it painful, and being the guy who could potentially not "break her in" right and ruin sex or leave a bad first impression is a huge chance we are simply not willing to take.
Second would be a possible attachment factor..."your my first and last lets get married!"
Third might be similar to the first reason in that she lacks experience...
REALLY though, I think most of us would prefer a virgin, less likely to have STDs, Less likely to control us in bed, less likely to be a guy that decided he wanted to be a girl... less likely to back out or complain if we don't produce amazing results...
In a sense we are taking away your innocence, and turning you into a woman. Most tend to feel privileged to have that honor.
"What would you do in that situation?"
Well... for me if I had that opportunity and if the girl seemed willing to give me that opportunity, I probably would take it, I might feel a little intimidated if it seemingly went to shit though.
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The only reason I know of avoiding a virgin girl is because we don't want a serious relationship and we don't want to hurt you knowing all girls want "the first time to be with someone special". We can be assholes, but that's too far even for us. But as someone who has been there I guarantee you if the guy geniunely likes you he wouldn't mind. Hell, he'll be estatic he's your first.
listen.
If a guy dumps you because you are a virgin then he is as shallow as a BUNT cake... lol
It would be obvious that he was only dating you to get some 'experienced sex', which is not worth investing time in. If someone loves you then he would love you, and not your sexual status
happy guy hunting :)
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Yes, I think I wouldn't have any problem with that really, and I haven't dated any virgin yet bit I guess he would have to be at least my same age or a bit older... if not I would feel like the opposite of a cougar. X
Why would I not date a virgin? I'm saving sex for marriage so I'd certainly hope whoever I'm with has the same idea.
No never. That's how come nobody in the world ever loses their virginity... Because nobody wants to hit it.
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If that was a matter then everyone on the earth would be virgin. img3.wikia.nocookie.net/.../FACEPALM.png
I am totally fine dating a virgin. I have dated two previous virgins. It seems the older someone gets the less interested they are in virgins. For me it doesn't matter either way and is in no way a deal breaker for anything. Just something about the person I am interested in.
For me I had plenty of experiences with girls in early ages but they were just playful ones. As for a real relationship; I have never had a girlfriend & never had sex not even once. I'm a virgin myself in all occasions, because I'm not ready for anything big even though I am at the age of 23 going to 24. As for dating a vurgin girl I would say that I would do anything in my power to make good things happen between me & my girl. The more I know about her being single the more my chances will rise up sky high for me to be her friend now & then her boyfriend at a later date.
Actually virginity is a deal breaker for me and not in the way you think. I actually only date virgins. Yeah.
Being a virgin myself, I will only lose my virginity to another virgin. If I am sharing myself for the first time with no memory of anyone else I have had sex with, I expect the same on her behalf. It is fair and mutual that way, plus ther is nothing better than taking each other's virginities. It is a give and take situation.Fudge, I'd prefer it. Call me low self-esteem, but I don't wanna be compared to anyone. But seriously, I can't honestly say I can respect a girl who sleeps around much. But if a girl does what she can to protect her chastity, I can respect that. Doing that is hard, especially nowadays, and sure to make her husband (if she marries) a pretty dang happy guy.
Definitely. I would be curious to know the whole story behind it but I wouldn't think less of the person if they were.
I'd date pretty much any girl. i just want to know what its like to have a gf and it would be nice to be with someone who would cut me slack because i haven't had any relationship experience. If we don't do anything intimate at all though because she's nervous in a period of like 1-2 months then we simply are not in a relationship--its a casual friendship.
That's the holy grail, female virginity is a desirable trait.
Thats one of the best traits in a girl. Shows she got morals and values and no STDs
Yepp, I wanna date a virgin. But its so hard finding a nice guy who is also a virgin :(
For a woman to be a virgin, she'd have to be substantially younger than me. And it would depend on the reasons she's a virgin.
Go for it. No Means no, yes means yes. That isn't understandable. From's a guys perspective thats means everything.
I don't see why not. Virgin or not, I imagine it would change very little about the relationship and how I feel about her.
I would prefer her to be a virgin because I'm 120% virgin.
if she was cute enough to date, her being a virgin would be an attractive plus.
I would rather date a virgin but that's because I'm also a virgin
Why does it honestly matter how people label each other?
Yes I'd date a Virgin but not a slut.
Why would I not?
only guys ill ever date.
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