Recently started dating a guy and seems like some people are blunt enough to say you can do better or I expected you to be with someone different. How do you feel about that? and has someone ever said that to you?
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They are saying it based on a shallow idea of who they think both you and the other person are, also if they are of the opposite sex they are biased in that they are most likely interested in you and are jealous of the other person getting to be with you.
People tell me that about my boyfriend all the time, but they don't know how amazing he is. He is one of the greatest men I know and even though they think I should be with someone who may be a meathead jock type... I don't want nor am I attracted to that kind of male.
When I hear it I usually say, "Why would you say that? You have no idea how amazing ________ is, he is perfect for me." and I disregard the conversation and move on.0