I was sleeping with this guy, and I didn't allow myself to get too close cause I'm always scared of getting hurt. Anyways, I thought I was becoming special to him, and it almost made me feel comfortable in showing him how I feel. And then he ignores me in front of everyone, and acts annoyed with my presence. He texts me that night asking if I'm alright, and I was just being short with him. And I just thought to myself... 'whatever, he clearly doesn't like me so I'll just stop asking him to hang out, i'll wait for him to do it next time' and he doesn't ask once...
and a few weeks later he already has a girlfriend. So basically he chose her over me. I feel so hurt especially because he brought her to a place he knew I'd be at.. It was incredibly awkward and I've been crying all day.
How do I get over this pain? Why on earth would be bring her around me.. just to hurt me? Like what the hell that was so inconsiderate. It was a huge "FUCK YOU" to my face.
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It's going to take time. If that were me, I'd look at it and see it wouldn't have worked between us anyway. You just saved yourself time in your life. The pain will take time... don't be afraid to get close to people. I do this. I need to work on this. It hurts. You held back and it still hurts. I hold back and it still hurts.
You want to be there ready to give yourself to the right person. Don't let this bad experiences close you off from the right guy, because he is out there. And why don't you deserve to be happy one day? Don't deny yourself that. Give this time and it will stop hurting. I promise you, if you remember these words, you will look at him (if you ever do again) and just feel nothing. This pain will be hard to remember! It happens!1
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