I recently found out that my ex bf has been telling his friends a lot about me since we aren't on that bad of terms and can still manage talking if we see each other around. I recently ran into my ex and we started to talk a bit I can't remember how this came up but he told me he had told a few of his friends a lot about what had happened between us and the reason we weren't together he also admitted that he told a couple of them every detail about me I just can't understand why I mean I don't know why but it just bugs me. I asked him why he would do that and that it bugged me a bit that he would talk about me like that when I don't know any of them but he wouldn't tell me why he did it. Honestly I just feel this kind of stuff is personal I don't go around talking about why we aren't together and personal details about him. I can understand maybe talking about it a bit but not the personal details that I made clear to him before that I would prefer that he kept it to himself. Also I know that my current bf doesn't like that stuff being said about me. Any idea why he would be talking about every detail to his friends about me? could use the advice/ help.
My ex told his friends every detail about me? why?
What Guys Said 1
It could be anything from anger about the break up to him trying to wrap his head around why it happened. If he's angry/jealous, he may go around spouting personal details, its childish, but it happens. If he is just trying to wrap his head around it, details are kind of necessary so one gets the full story before helping him figure it out. That second is still not justified if you guys still talk, because he could have just asked why. If its neither of the two, then its just guy talk. From what i hear, girls sometimes share personal details as well. What i don't get is why he would tell you he did that. So im leaning more towards anger/jealousy.0
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